Norfolk- Martha Irene Argabrite Cassidy O’Brien joined her long lost love, Patrick Leonard O’Brien on Wednesday May 26, 2021 after fighting a near lifetime of pain and suffering to an unknown disease that tormented her until her last breath. She braved through it without complaint as the strong woman she was. She is survived by her sons, Sean, Brendan and Michael, her 5 Siblings, Raymond, Steve, David and John Argabrite and Amy Whisman. She also had seven grandchildren, and fourteen great grandchildren. She was a loving surrogate and foster mother of many children through the years of her life, including but not limited to Russell Argabrite, Missy Hazen, Helen E. Hobbs and so many more. She was a loving friend to so may people. A Faithful follower of God and member of Norview United Methodist Church, a member of the SDPHS, 50+ Club and donated her time and money to her church and many charities. Her life was Celebrated on June 4th. and her ashes will be joining her Love at sea. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in her name. Thank you all so much.