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Nicholas Carmine LoMele

9/8/1945 - 8/9/2025

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Obituary For Nicholas Carmine LoMele

Nicholas "Nick" Carmine LoMele, 79, of Gloucester, VA, passed away on the early morning of August 9, 2025.

A devoted husband, father, grandfather and friend, Nick loved his family above all else. He is survived by his beloved wife, Patti, with whom he shared 41 wonderful years of marriage; his children, Debbie (Dave), Donna, Keri (Ryan), Nick (Lindsay), Michelle (Jeremy), and James; his grandchildren, Amber (Andrew), Trevor (Catherine), Grayson (Rebekah), Kaylie, Nathan, Kristyn, Alexis, Nicholas, Joseph, and Michael; and great-grandchildren, Kain, Violet, and Archer.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Nicholas and Carmela, his brother Frank, and his sister, Phil.

Nick proudly served his country as a MP in the United States Air Force, a commitment that reflected his deep patriotism and sense of duty. Eventually, he found his way to Gloucester, Virginia and poured his heart into the horses at the Blue and Grey Farm. To him, the many students who learned and grew there were “his kids” too, and he cared for them as such.

Those who knew Nick will remember not only his generous spirit and steadfast values, but also his quick wit and wonderful sense of humor. He could find laughter in life’s everyday moments, and his stories and jokes had a way of making people feel instantly at ease.

He will be remembered for his love, his service, his laughter, and the quiet strength with which he lived his life. His legacy will continue to inspire all who knew him.

Simply Cremation is assisting the family.

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  • 08/15/2025

    Diane DeLouker

    So sad for the loss of Nick, my dear, old and most special friend. Grateful for the memories we shared, and for the kindness he brought into the world. Wishing his wonderful family comfort, love, and peace in this time of sorrow.

  • 08/15/2025

    Wanda Collins

    Sending prayers of comfort and strength during your time of bereavement.

  • 08/14/2025

    Robin southall

    I am so sorry to hear this. Some of my fondest memories are at the farm. "Uncle Nick" was a huge part of my kids growing up. The love and life lessons on that farm mean more to me than either Patty or Nick could have known. Love you, more than I could have said or shown. Rest in peace good man. And all the prayers and good thoughts I can send to Patty and the family.

  • 08/14/2025

    Sherry Landers

    I am so very sorry to hear of this loss. I am sending my thoughts and prayers to Patti, the family and dear friends. Rest easy Nick. I know he will be missed by many as he was so kind and he adored you Patti.

  • 08/14/2025

    Dorothy Daland

    My heart, thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult and heartbreaking time.

  • 08/14/2025

    Patti

    I miss you so bad baby!

  • 08/14/2025

    Theresa Joyner

    Patti and family we are so sorry for your loss. You guys are in our thoughts and prayers. I know Nick will be missed and most of all he will be missed by Patti. Where you seen Patti Nick won't far away.

  • 08/14/2025

    Jamie Hackett (Shores)

    Rest In Peace Mr. Nick. You were always such a kind man. I'm so very sorry for y'all's loss. Sending love and prayers during this sad time.

  • 08/14/2025

    Vanessa Graves

    Patti and family. So very sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your loved ones.

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