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Rebecca Anne Morning

12/29/1982 - 3/16/2025

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Obituary For Rebecca Anne Morning

Our funny, uninhibited, beloved Wife, Daughter, Sister, Cousin, Aunt (Titi) and friend Rebecca Ann Flemming (Becky) was peacefully welcomed into Heaven Sunday afternoon March 16, 2025. She was at home surrounded in prayer by those she loved. Becky was born in 1982 at Virginia Beach General Hospital to Mary D. Merritt and Douglas Setchel of Virginia Beach, VA. Immediately, Becky displayed her fun loving ‘Hey Girl’ attitude.

Becky was truly authentic. She enjoyed life especially the ‘finer’ things… Becky was always ready to take the trip, eat the cake and buy the shoes. Her profession as a hair stylist was her passion, proudly making everyone in her chair feel their absolute best. Becky graduated from Rudy & Kelly Academy in 2011. At a very young age we knew Becky would be a stylist, as she loved to cut all her Barbie’s hair making them bald.

As much as Becky loved her profession, the accomplishments she was most proud of were her two Daughters Katelyn and Kortney. These two girls were the light of her life and Becky particularly loved to watch their many years of dance recitals. As much as her children were her ‘world’, her Mom was ‘her person.’

Becky and her husband Shawn married in 2011 and for Becky she knew at first sight. Together they enjoyed many family vacations, holidays and when illness hit, Shawn was there to help wherever he could.

Becky loved her family dearly. She and her sister Barbara were always up to something competing for the ‘favorite child’ spot. She loved to sing and dance with both her Dad’s, loved being a ‘Titi’ to her nephew Jonathan (who she called ‘phew’) and loved her niece Sophia (who was always known as ‘Titi’s girl’). During the holidays, family would gather at Gigi’s house which were some of Becky’s favorite memories… Lots of laughter, love and shenanigans.

The family would like to extend a special thank you to Dr. Daniel Aruch and his staff at Virginia Oncology Associates. Dr. Aruch always dedicated the time needed and never stopped finding a way to be hopeful. After every visit, Becky always left his office laughing, even on the toughest days. Becky always said, “Dr. Aruch just makes me happy.” The family will be forever thankful for Dr. Aruch’s positive outlook and care.

Becky was preceded in death by her grandfather George Duc, daughter Kasandra MaryAnne, Granddaughter Demari Carter, Grandparents Rev. Eugene O. Setchel and Barbara Jean Setchel and granddaughter Damari Carter.

Becky is survived by her Mother, Mary Merritt and Stepfather Curt Merritt, her Father Douglas Setchel, Grandmother Shirley Krist, husband Shawn Flemming, Daughters Katelyn and Kortney Morning, Sisters Barbara Jean Setchel and Alicia Wiedemann, Nephews Jonathan Favia, Wesley and Austin Wiedemann, Nieces Sophia Setchel and Margot June Wiedemann, Aunt and Uncle Carol and Ronnie Rickman, Denise Favia, Grandchildren Damani Randle, De’aira Carter, Da’riyah Johnson, and several other relatives.

Our Becky Boo may have left this world way too soon, but she will forever leave a smile on our hearts. A Celebration of Life Service will be held on April 5 th, 12:00 pm noon at Beach Fellowship Church 1817 General Booth Blvd., Virginia Beach, VA 23454. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations be made in memory of Becky to the Melanoma Research Alliance at give.curemelanoma.org. MRA is the world's largest private nonprofit funder of melanoma research who’s mission is to cure Melanoma.

Simply Cremation is handling the arrangements.

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  • 04/05/2025

    Judy & Elisa Trent

  • 04/02/2025

    Sarah Dellavecchio

    I love you cuz! ❤️ We had some fun times growing up together. You always made me laugh and I admired how you quickly became friends with anyone you met. I was so happy to see you get baptized and redicate your life to God! Know you are resting in His arms with your beautiful baby!

  • 04/02/2025

    Cathy Duc

    Girl even though I was only around you a few times,you light up a room ,your presence was something else.you will be missed by your family

  • 03/29/2025

    Marchelle Cottrell

    Becky Boo I will cherish all of our memories for as long as I live. I keep replaying all of our memories from us hanging out throughout our 20 years of friendship. I'm blessed to have had you in my life. I'm saddened to see you go. But I'm glad you're no longer in pain. I'm gonna miss coming by the salon and sitting and talking with you for hours. Love u forever babes -your friend Marsha-

  • 03/28/2025

    Joshua Rickman

    My cousin we shared so many memories & laughs throughout our years together. Every time we got together there was never a dull moment. You were a truly a light in this world. Every-time I would come visit after moving to Florida you always made time to come by Gigis and visit with me for a few hours. You will forever remain in my heart and mind. May you rest in the arms of our savior until we meet again. I love you always. Josh Rickman

  • 03/28/2025

    Barbara Setchel

    I will forever miss my baby sister. I miss your arms around my neck and thinking I was able to do anything, when it was you that was the true superhero. Your strength will forever amaze me. No more pain and you are in the arms of Jesus who loved you 1st. Thank you for all your love and will keep my nieces safe.

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