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Thomas Joseph High

3/19/1941 - 10/2/2026

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Obituary For Thomas Joseph High

Virginia Beach, VA - Thomas Joseph High born on March 19, 1941, in Jamaica Queens, New York, passed away peacefully surrounded by his two loving children on October 2, 2026, in Virginia Beach, Virginia at the age of 85. Thomas was the youngest of six children born to William High and Susan (Williams) High.

Thomas attended prestigious St. Emma Military Academy, a private Catholic boarding school and the nation’s only military academy exclusively for African-American young men. Often referred to as the “West Point of prep schools” emphasizing discipline, respect, teamwork and leadership with rigorous academic instruction. St. Emma Military Academy played a significant role in shaping his character, teaching him discipline, accountability, perseverance, and the value of hard work. His military school experience laid the foundation for his disciplined mindset, unwavering work ethic, leadership skills, and commitment to excellence.

Thomas joined the Air Force and was stationed in Tacoma, Washington. During that time, he met his beautiful wife Lola, in Portland Oregon. Thomas and Lola were married for 32 years and had two children Kenneth D. High and Kelly Bradshaw who he raised in Los Angeles, California.

Thomas was a loving Father and Grandfather who had a great sense of humor and loved people. His quick wit and big personality attracted everyone he met. Thomas was loved by all who knew him and his generosity towards his friends and family was unparalleled.

Thomas was a dedicated and hardworking man who spent his career as a General Organizer for the International Brotherhood of Teamsters, from which he eventually retired. His contributions to the labor movement and his commitment to improving the lives of workers were unwavering and left a lasting impact on those who knew him.

Thomas was preceded in death by his beloved parents, William and Susan (Williams) High. He is survived by his son, Kenneth D. High, his wife Rhonda High; and his daughter, Kelly Bradshaw, her husband Rodney Bradshaw; grandson, Jordan Bradshaw; granddaughter, Kayla Bradshaw; many nieces and nephews; as well as many other family members and friends who will miss him dearly.

In keeping with his wishes, no services are planned at this time. Thomas's cremains will be returned to his family in California. Simply Cremation is assisting his family during this difficult time.

Friends and family are invited to share memories and express condolences at SimplyCremationOnline.com.

Thomas Joseph High will be remembered fondly by all who had the privilege of knowing him. His legacy of dedication and love will continue to resonate with his family and friends.

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  • 11/01/2026

    Tracye Mayo

    Some childhood memories remain with us for a lifetime. Growing up next door to the High family was a special chapter in our lives. Our fathers were friends, our mothers formed a friendship that continues to this day, and Kelly, Kenny, my brother, and I had the joy of growing up together. Although life eventually took our families in different directions, those early years and the connections we shared will always hold a special place in our family's history. Rest peacefully, Mr. High. May the memories of your life continue to bring comfort to your family and all who hold you dear. With love, Tracye Mayo

  • 10/28/2026

    Always & Forever Daddy’s Girl

    I am so very Blessed by and Thankful to God for my father, and I thank God for making me his daughter.

  • 10/25/2026

    Renaye

    Uncle Tommy was a Great Man, he was always the Life of the family gatherings really funny and nice. He will be truly missed! Love Renaye Garrison ❤️🙏

  • 10/21/2026

    Lynne Sheffield

    Mr. High, For over 47 years, I have had the blessing of sharing a beautiful friendship with your daughter, and through that friendship, you became someone I will always remember with great fondness. You had a special way of making people laugh, bringing smiles to those around you, and showing how much you cared. Your humor, kindness, and warm spirit were truly special gifts. Rest well. Love Lynne

  • 10/13/2026

    Wendy Williams

    May you rest in peace Mr. High. You were an amazing person with a heart of gold and will be dearly missed by us all.

  • 10/12/2026

    Frankie Holloway

    My uncle Tommy wasn't just my uncle, he was also like an older brother to me. Without hesitation he took on that role after my brother Ritchie died. He always told me that whatever I need, don't hesitate to call me. When I was on the basketball team at Dorsey, the sneakers that I had on were falling apart. At the time, he was working hard at Western Airlines on different shifts and just had a new baby girl. When he saw what I had on he bought me a new pair of Converse All Stars even though money was tight. I didn't even ask him for them. But he wanted me to look good on the court. That was my uncle looking out for me as usual. He can rest in peace now and join his brother and sisters and mother and father and cousins. God willing, I will see him again. Love, Frankie

  • 10/11/2026

    Kelly Bradshaw

    And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away." Rev 21:4

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